Friday, August 08, 2008

08/08/08: Wedding Bliss for Some, But Not All; Here's the Secret to Making Your Ex Return Your Call

Editor's note: Since the number eight represents luck and prosperity in Chinese culture, millions of people around the globe chose today -- August 8, 2008 [the first day of the Beijing-hosted 2008 Summer Olympics, in fact] -- to exchange their vows of everlasting commitment and fidelity to their beloved partners.

If you're not among the blissfully wedded and, perhaps, long to attract that special someone back into your life, TW [T Dub] Jackson shares his secret strategy to help you make that happen
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By TW [T Dub] Jackson
Author,
"The Magic of Making Up System"

Are there "magic" words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe, but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool, huh?...

I am going to share this with you, because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 folks just like you who are trying to put their relationship back together.

So, I am going to answer ... "How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"

BUT...

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WARNING!
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In "The Magic of Making Up System," I lay out a complete strategy.

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If you use this technique alone, without an "overall" plan or strategy ... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

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What NOT to Say!
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Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

And, worse ...

Puts you in an AWFUL "psychological" position.

These usually fall into two categories.

1] The PLEAD -- Where the message sounds like:"John, please, please call me. This is the third time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."

And ...

2] The EMERGENCY --

"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches -- ?

So, I won't go on and on...

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How to Use Curiosity & Self-Interest to Your Advantage
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Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are:

*Curiosity; and

*Self-Interest

And, here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work "magic."

So ...

Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi, John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me, because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self-interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good, because it is a positive message.

Now ...

Before you call, you need to do the "Set Up" ... which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing ... but needs to be plausible.

But, more importantly ...

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2nd WARNING!
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Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in "The Magic of Making Up System" BEFORE you call.

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If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back, you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.

Okay?

What I am saying is ...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a PLAN!

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Rooting for You,

T Dub

P.S.: Be sure to check out all the testimonials from T Dub's happy readers/students of "The Magic of Making Up System"!
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